A kommunik\u00e1ci\u00f3 hi\u00e1nya, ak\u00e1r az \u00fczlet meghi\u00fasul\u00e1s\u00e1hoz is vezethet. Az emberi kapcsolatok alapja a kommunik\u00e1ci\u00f3. Lehet sz\u00f3 bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gr\u00f3l, \u00fczleti viszonyr\u00f3l, csal\u00e1di vagy munkakapcsolatr\u00f3l: mindegyik egy l\u00e1thatatlan h\u00edd k\u00e9t ember k\u00f6z\u00f6tt. De ez a h\u00edd csak akkor \u00e1ll stabilan, ha mindk\u00e9t ir\u00e1nyba van forgalom. Ha az egyik f\u00e9l egyszer\u0171en nem reag\u00e1l, a h\u00edd lassan, de biztosan \u00f6sszed\u0151l.<\/span><\/p>\n It's familiar to many of us: we send an email, a message, an offer - and nothing from the other side. You don't expect a seven-page, immediate reply, but just a short note: <\/span>\"Thanks, I got it, I'll get back to you.\"<\/b> A simple sentence like this shouldn't take more than 3 seconds, yet it means an incredible amount to the person who put the effort into writing the message or letter.<\/span><\/p>\n A \"thank you\", an \"ok\", a \ud83d\udc4d - any small reaction shows that the message is getting through. But complete silence says: <\/span>\"What you said is not important.\" \"You are not important to me.\"<\/b><\/p>\n Probably the most frustrating example is when someone works for hours on a quote, for example, paying attention to every detail, then sends it... and there is no response. Not a \"thanks, but it's not current\", not a \"too expensive\", not a \"I changed my mind\" - but nothing. Zero. Zero. It's not just rude, it's disrespectful of the other person's time and expertise.<\/span><\/p>\n Some people are enthusiastic: \"I'll write tomorrow!\", \"I'll get back to you later this week!\", \"I'll send you as soon as I get home!\" \"I'll come on Friday\", \"I'll call you this week\" - and then we never hear from him again. This is not only annoying, it's a confidence builder. If you know someone is forgetful, use a calendar, notepad, phone reminder - technology has given you everything you need to not appear unreliable. Or, if you forget, something has come up, the minimum is to apologise and let the other person know that hello, we're still alive, sorry, but this or that came up or simply sorry, I forgot. Anything is better than silence!<\/span><\/p>\n It's almost more embarrassing when an important question goes unanswered for days and you have to keep asking, \"Excuse me, could you take a look?\", \"Do you remember how I wrote?\" This situation takes up unnecessary energy and makes you feel as if the other person is doing you a favour by responding at all.<\/span><\/p>\n It is no less annoying when, for example, someone asks three questions in an email and only the last one is answered. And the others? Who will? It's like they never existed. This leads to more rounds, more letters and more time wasted. And time is the most precious and important thing for everyone. Especially when a workflow is at stake.<\/span><\/p>\n When we explain everything thoroughly, perhaps even ask a question or questions about the subject, but the other party's response immediately reveals that he or she has not understood the content of the letter and answers in a completely different way to what we are asking. It is as if he had not written to us and we are left wondering what this has to do with us. And then we go round and round again. If this happens to us, don't be ashamed to ask back if you don't understand what the other person wants.<\/span><\/p>\n Why do we need feedback?<\/b><\/p>\n In communication, silence means something - just rarely what we want it to mean. A short response is not a luxury, it is basic intelligence. And if you think about it: often 3 seconds and two words are enough to make the other party feel valued, heard and respected.<\/span><\/p>\n The next time you get a message you can't immediately process, remember that a little \"received, in touch\" might just make someone's day better. And that's the gesture that pays off in every relationship, because EVERYONE LIVES AS MUCH AS THEY WORD!<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Visszajelz\u00e9s n\u00e9lk\u00fcl nincs kommunik\u00e1ci\u00f3 \u2013 \u00e9s kapcsolat sincs A kommunik\u00e1ci\u00f3 hi\u00e1nya, ak\u00e1r az \u00fczlet meghi\u00fasul\u00e1s\u00e1hoz is vezethet. Az emberi kapcsolatok alapja a kommunik\u00e1ci\u00f3. Lehet sz\u00f3 bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gr\u00f3l, \u00fczleti viszonyr\u00f3l, csal\u00e1di vagy munkakapcsolatr\u00f3l: mindegyik egy l\u00e1thatatlan h\u00edd k\u00e9t ember k\u00f6z\u00f6tt. De ez a h\u00edd csak akkor \u00e1ll stabilan, ha mindk\u00e9t ir\u00e1nyba van forgalom. Ha az egyik f\u00e9l […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3661,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3660","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"yoast_head":"\nA kommunik\u00e1ci\u00f3 hi\u00e1nya – az \u00fczenet a semmibe<\/b><\/h3>\n
A kommunik\u00e1ci\u00f3 hi\u00e1nya \u00e9s a munka, ami l\u00e1thatatlan marad<\/b><\/h3>\n
The promise that hangs in the air<\/b><\/h3>\n
A kommunik\u00e1ci\u00f3 hi\u00e1nya \u00e9s a \u201ek\u00e9regetett\u201d v\u00e1lasz<\/b><\/h3>\n
The \"answer only the last one\" tactic<\/b><\/h3>\n
Lack of interpretation<\/b><\/h3>\n
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Conclusion: silence is a message<\/b><\/h3>\n