This article not just for freelancers, but also for those, who as customers sometimes (without their knowledge!) crossing borders.
As freelancers or small business owners, we often find ourselves in situations where our goodwill can easily backfire.
"Just one more little thing" or
"It's already in there, isn't it?" - do these phrases sound familiar?
Boundaries are blurred, the value of our knowledge is questioned and feedback is often not given.
In this article, I'll show you how to draw healthy boundaries with your clients, why it's important to acknowledge knowledge and how communication can help you work in a clear, mutually respectful way.
No business without borders - only evisceration
Why is it important to value professional knowledge and communicate clearly in a project?
Being a freelancer is not just about being an entrepreneur.
But also that without boundaries, self-defence and communication maturity can very easily find themselves in a situation where goodwill becomes weakness.
A situation that is familiar to many of us:
At the start of the project, everything is clear.
The quote is correct.
The task is laid down.
The customer is enthusiastic.
The provider is motivated.
Then comes the "please look at this too", the "there's nothing to do with it", the "just a small change", the "we can handle this anyway" and so on........
Then silence.
Then the client's own changes.
Then the point where You've long been working outside the scope of your responsibilities, but no one notices - or doesn't report back.
This is where two key words come into play:
1. THE VALUE OF KNOWLEDGE
What a web, freelance, creative professional can "do in a jiffy", he worked hard.
If someone just waves it away, saying:
"Come on, you just click through a field..." or "Oh, we can do that....."
...it's not just the work that's being evaluated -
but the whole career behind it, the time, money and energy invested in learning.
👩💻 Knowledge is value.
👨🎓 Learning comes at a price.
🧾 The service is not a favour - it's a work done with a strong professional background.
If we don't take this seriously, the line between professional and courtesy, expert and buddy. And that's where the trouble starts.
2. THE ROLE OF COMMUNICATION AND FEEDBACK
Feedback is not a luxury - not an extra - and not a request.
- Giving feedback = treating the other person as a human being.
- A "thank you" is not a prize or an acknowledgement - it is a basic respect.
- As a customer, it means telling us if we change something, is the cornerstone of partnership and cooperation.
A relationship works well when bilateral, transparent and humane.
If one party works and the other party only works expects, demands, meddles in the work that has been built up, arbitrarily modifies - and even remains silent, then it is no longer a partnership, but a subordinate relationship.
And what happens without borders?
- The provider feels burnt out and devalued.
- The relationship will deteriorate - even unspokenly.
- Project A goes further, only neither side knows: who, what, why, how much they do.
As a client and as a freelancer, it's worth taking note:
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We always clarify expectations in advance.
If any new needs or changes arise:
– communicate,
- exactly,
- As a human being.
2). Knowledge is not only valuable if it lasts for a long time.
Behind the fast, professional solution many years of knowledge available.
Just because it was "a few minutes" doesn't mean it's not worth it and that anyone can do it... Let's respect each other by accepting and acknowledging their work.
3) "Thank you" doesn't cost money - but the absence of it costs more.
One email, one message, one feedback - keeps us connected, recognises our work, keeps us human.
To sum up:
Conflict is not the biggest risk in a project,
but - the unspeakable,
- the silence
- the disappearance of borders.
To work well together - as customers, as service providers, as people - we need to we must respect each other's time, knowledge and the fact that we are both human and partners in the work. There is no subordinate and superior relationship. Neither party is more valuable than the other. Just because the client has the money and is paying does not make them the first actor in the story. And the same is true for the other side. BUT! If one is not competent as a client, then accept the contractor's suggestions, because what he offers is based on professional conviction, experience and knowledge.
A fair relationship does not work because there is never a dispute -
but that there is communication, value-sharing and yes: REFERENCE.
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